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1. Let others use
Consciously or unconsciously, most people who socialize with you all will test the limits of self. When you do not have clear boundaries, which can accept and which do not allow others to use to drain your energy and may, in its wealth. The more often you let it happen, the worse than being exploited by others. Solidify for your own good.
2. Better to give than to receive
Unless you work in social work or charity, much to give and receive less than they deserve indicating that low self-esteem. This often happens when one wants to be loved and accepted by others to continue giving, hoping to get lots of praise and others will be attracted to you. Another case in the world of work, if this happens, then that means the company can not appreciate.
3. Disinterested
Do not think of itself seems to be an altruistic attitude, why not think about yourself on this list? Simple, if you are sick, if he could help others? If you do not care for himself if he can care for others effectively? Take, for example when you are flying, flight attendants will be taught that passengers have to put an oxygen mask on yourself first before you put the oxygen mask to his son. Help yourself to help others.
4. Not having a plan for the future
This is very sad if it happens. You are confused about your future and your life filled with the words “do not know.” When someone asks: What is your ambition? What is your greatest wish in the future? Want to work in what areas? His answer is “do not know.” First we must begin to recognize the identity of himself properly, then dream, plan, act and celebrate the results.
5. Do not tell others about what you want and need
In addition to saying often “unknown” people who have this sign often say that “it’s up to you.” Maybe you think they do not want to disturb others or do not want to hurt the feelings of others. But if you continue to harbor a desire, there will be frustration and resentment in you and the lack of communication with others.
6. Limited
Restrict here means you are blocking yourself to grow. The judge that you are unable to do a job when I’ve never really do it or feel they deserve their loved ones. Thinking this way will not make you a better human being, living in your comfort area
7. Receive a bad influence on environment
Environments typically have a large influence on the development of a person. But the man who can think adults can discern the influence of good and evil. Receive a bad influence in the same way as not to love yourself, because you do something that gets hurt in the future.
8. Let someone else control your life
Human beings are basically independent. They have body, soul and mind, respectively. Unfortunately, many people live to be a puppet controlled by others. Always do what you said to someone else, good or bad. The regulator is a person who has been high or could be, your loved ones. It’s basically a fear. Fear of losing their position or their loved ones. If you include people how are you things, know that you are a modern man, we do not live in an age of hundreds of years, you have the right to freedom to establish their own life.
9. Do not try to solve the shortcomings
You know the flaws, but do not try to fix it. Habits and bad behavior is something that can be arranged when you’re already aware of it. Not always use the excuse that no one is perfect. There will always be scarce, no matter how hard you try. But that was the purpose of human life, to keep learning. Living in a hero and continue to die as a hero.
10. He hates flaws and ignores the benefits
Man who passes the time to complain and complain about its shortcomings, you can not see the advantages that there are actually around. Imagine when the Stevie Wonder and Andrea Bocelli is blind, Nick Vujicic, who do not have hands and feet, or Stephen Hawking of the motor nerves are not functioning properly, are lamenting the shortcomings of his body, which can become successful figures ? God is just, He will not create human beings who can not do anything. Humans certainly have a way of success of each. Now everything depends on you, stopped complaining and try to develop a strong point?
It was the 10 signs that you love. Remember that you are a candle will not be able to enlighten you about when you are not illuminated by light. You must love yourself before loving others. Have a nice day!
Ten signs you don't love and appreciate yourself
Ten signs you do not love and appreciate yourself
You love your parents, your lover, and his friends, but how much you love yourself? You should know that loving yourself will give you an understanding of how to truly love others. You can certainly understand the shortcomings of others, if you can understand his own flaws, right? Here are 10 signs that do not love:1. Let others use
Consciously or unconsciously, most people who socialize with you all will test the limits of self. When you do not have clear boundaries, which can accept and which do not allow others to use to drain your energy and may, in its wealth. The more often you let it happen, the worse than being exploited by others. Solidify for your own good.
2. Better to give than to receive
Unless you work in social work or charity, much to give and receive less than they deserve indicating that low self-esteem. This often happens when one wants to be loved and accepted by others to continue giving, hoping to get lots of praise and others will be attracted to you. Another case in the world of work, if this happens, then that means the company can not appreciate.
3. Disinterested
Do not think of itself seems to be an altruistic attitude, why not think about yourself on this list? Simple, if you are sick, if he could help others? If you do not care for himself if he can care for others effectively? Take, for example when you are flying, flight attendants will be taught that passengers have to put an oxygen mask on yourself first before you put the oxygen mask to his son. Help yourself to help others.
4. Not having a plan for the future
This is very sad if it happens. You are confused about your future and your life filled with the words “do not know.” When someone asks: What is your ambition? What is your greatest wish in the future? Want to work in what areas? His answer is “do not know.” First we must begin to recognize the identity of himself properly, then dream, plan, act and celebrate the results.
5. Do not tell others about what you want and need
In addition to saying often “unknown” people who have this sign often say that “it’s up to you.” Maybe you think they do not want to disturb others or do not want to hurt the feelings of others. But if you continue to harbor a desire, there will be frustration and resentment in you and the lack of communication with others.
6. Limited
Restrict here means you are blocking yourself to grow. The judge that you are unable to do a job when I’ve never really do it or feel they deserve their loved ones. Thinking this way will not make you a better human being, living in your comfort area
7. Receive a bad influence on environment
Environments typically have a large influence on the development of a person. But the man who can think adults can discern the influence of good and evil. Receive a bad influence in the same way as not to love yourself, because you do something that gets hurt in the future.
8. Let someone else control your life
Human beings are basically independent. They have body, soul and mind, respectively. Unfortunately, many people live to be a puppet controlled by others. Always do what you said to someone else, good or bad. The regulator is a person who has been high or could be, your loved ones. It’s basically a fear. Fear of losing their position or their loved ones. If you include people how are you things, know that you are a modern man, we do not live in an age of hundreds of years, you have the right to freedom to establish their own life.
9. Do not try to solve the shortcomings
You know the flaws, but do not try to fix it. Habits and bad behavior is something that can be arranged when you’re already aware of it. Not always use the excuse that no one is perfect. There will always be scarce, no matter how hard you try. But that was the purpose of human life, to keep learning. Living in a hero and continue to die as a hero.
10. He hates flaws and ignores the benefits
Man who passes the time to complain and complain about its shortcomings, you can not see the advantages that there are actually around. Imagine when the Stevie Wonder and Andrea Bocelli is blind, Nick Vujicic, who do not have hands and feet, or Stephen Hawking of the motor nerves are not functioning properly, are lamenting the shortcomings of his body, which can become successful figures ? God is just, He will not create human beings who can not do anything. Humans certainly have a way of success of each. Now everything depends on you, stopped complaining and try to develop a strong point?
It was the 10 signs that you love. Remember that you are a candle will not be able to enlighten you about when you are not illuminated by light. You must love yourself before loving others. Have a nice day!